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Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Whats Going On....Forgetfulness

 there is only one friend

who always remembers her birthday

responds to correspondence

almost immediately

the  one she has never met


forgetfulness

 from life long acquaintances

says it all

emblazoned

capital letters in the sky


time for the ostrich

to pull her head out of the sand

relinquish the spear carrier position

check out reality so clearly etched

even blind freddy could see it

8 comments:

  1. I know this feeling. Thank heaven for our online friends.

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  2. "forgetfulness
    from life long acquaintances
    says it all"
    Yes. That's hard stuff. Who knows if continuing to remember them is helpful or not? Who knows if confrontation is worthwhile? I have let go of more than I remember.

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  3. My best friends are online too - Happy Christmas to you Rall - Jae

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  4. Your evocative imagery speak volumes on the bittersweet reality of forgetfulness in long-standing relationships while celebrating the surprising constancy of online friends. Poignant!

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  5. Online friends are so often there for us when others aren't. I'm with Susan - letting go even when it's extremely painful is often the best way forward. Suzanne - Wayfaring - Wordpress blog.

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  6. "the one she has never met" Long live our online friends! Many of us can relate to the feelings. Intentional forgetfulness hurts. Well said.

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  7. It is so tough to be forgotten or is it being ignored. I'm not sure. Thankfully there are those online friends who hold us up.

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  8. I can relate to this, Rall. I treasure my online friends.

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