
midweek motif poets united
poetry jam
you called
we go back years
a friendship
framed by a million
telephone conversations
une amie d'enfance
we battled through
trials and tribulations
of teenage angst
of student life
of broken hearts
of work life
of children
of marriage
of divorce
you said
you were calling
after all these years
because
you found my number
at the bottom of a drawer
je te dis
je prefere la politesse
la gentillesse des etrangeres
(i'm telling you i prefer good manners
the kindness of strangers)
Wow, Rallentanda, that must have been a very moving conversation you had. Sometimes it is the people you have known the longest, and through the most difficult times,who know you the most. Even if the phone number was found at the bottom of the drawer.
ReplyDeleteRallentanda, I hope the connection was a good one.....after all those years.
ReplyDelete.I can tell by your response Mary, that you don't know me at all and probably have never met anyone like me:) LOL
DeleteI guess not.
DeleteThis makes me think of the friends at the other end of the phone who talked me through my most difficult years. The kindness of people, indeed........
ReplyDeletei like how you considered the relationship that resumed after so many years and at
ReplyDeletelast let it go....nice lines..
Found it at the bottom of a drawer? Up there with the homework-eating dog.
ReplyDeleteUmmmm .... that's a good point. How do you explain to someone that you've lost touch with why you're contacting them again?
DeleteI actually had a best friend who had not contacted me in two years preamble her contact with" I know it seems as if I am using you because the only time i contact you is to ask for something" and then proceed to, and me being the usual obliging nice friend agreed to her request. I thought about it and decided then and there things had to change. Returned the call. Her husband answered..I .said something had come up and arrangement not possible...have never heard from her again...she was a school friend.
DeleteIs it just me or are women more inclined than men to keep long term friendships? I've only kept in touch with one friend from my childhood. None from previous jobs or university. Perhaps I'm just anti-social. On the other hand, Carol has kept loads of long-term friendships. Mind you, the majority of my male friendships would be a very bad influence on me.
DeleteYou are a secure type of guy that has women as friends.:)
DeleteFunnily enough I much prefer the company of women. I find they talk about more meaningful things - plus I do love a good gossip and a giggle too. I think its because my sister was only 14 months older than me and her friends were my friends.
DeleteNot odd at all..you are a member of a dying breed of unconfused red blooded males who likes sheilas enough to hang out with them....it is the way it is meant to be. Good for you !
DeleteHarsh! She was, after all that, a stranger. The poem is splendid, a speed run through a relationship. I cannot help thinking of slights I have given and taken when I might have made a different choice--and people I have hung on to though we have nothing in common accept knowing each other too well.
ReplyDeleteBecause I placed a value on long term relationships, I accepted behaviour deleterious to my self-esteem which I should never have tolerated. It is one of my regrets that I did not have the courage or the good sense to offload some of my "friends" sooner than I did. My life is so much better now without them.
DeleteI love how a call from a good good friend can restart a friendship ~ Sometimes those connections are never lost ~
ReplyDeleteWe obviously inhabit different worlds. Yours is very much nicer than mine.!
DeleteGood one Rall....well done and thanks for sharing your words....Cheers
ReplyDeleteFrench seems to be a popular language for bilingual poems!
ReplyDeleteoh my- I would prefer the politemess of strangers also. Je vous envoie un gros câlin!
ReplyDeleteMerci !
DeleteLayered in sensitive, wisps of memories and feelings.
ReplyDeleteI kept wanting this to end well. And I guess, depending on your point of view, it did. You can move on!
ReplyDeleteI had to read through the comments and your replies, to make sure that I had the right "read" on this. I used to have a bad habit of trying to help people who didn't really want to be helped. Was getting so exahusted and heartsore, finally woke up and realized didn't need or want that kind of friend. It‘s hard to let go of people who have a lot of history with you, glad you were able to let go:-)
ReplyDeleteSo true. Our "friends" can use us and take advantage of the feelings we have for them. Strangers expect nothing in return for the kindness they give, the gentle words they speak or the smile they donate...
ReplyDeleteFriends are always there even if we lose their number, life is full of forgotten moments. Nicely done,
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